| Celebration : The preparation for the puja should be started at about 4 or 5 p.m. Someone
older, or the housewife herself, prepares a suitable place in the puja room, in case
it is a big room which can accommodate all the women who have been invited for the puja;
otherwise the best place is a verandah or the open courtyard, since generally the weather
is not cold during this season. The
goddess known as Gaur Mata is worshipped. The Gaur Mata used to be made with cowdung in
the shape of a human figure, just about two inches tall. Nowadays, a picture or an idol of
Parvati is worshipped.
Women celebrate by buying bangles and
applying henna patterns on their hands. New brides wear their bridal outfits and others
wear outfits woven with gold. Those who have keep the vrat, dress up beautifully in
their chunris or in red or pink clothes with chonp and bindi on their foreheads.
Once the moon rises, the women see its
reflection in a thaali of water, after which they do a pooja for their
husband's safety and long life, and finally break their fast. |